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ntyaif 1st source: 1. Criticism blunts your child’s sense of responsibility. 2. Criticism incubates feelings of shame. 3. Criticism creates unnecessary pain. 4. When you judge your child, she learns to judge herself. 5. Criticism undermines parent-child trust. How to Avoid Criticizing Your Child More often than not, harsh words stem from parents’ emotional reactions to their child’s behaviour. They believe, usually mistakenly, that their child is intentionally being cruel or provoking when she engages in unhelpful actions. In reality, however, the reasons why children act out often have nothing to do with their parents. Far from wanting to be “bad,” most children act out because they are hurt, confused, anxious, tired, overwhelmed, etc. It’s therefore important not to take your child’s behaviour personally; instead, take a deep breath and objectively assess the severity of what your child has done. If your child has hurt someone else (physically or emotionally), administer consequences (such as a removal of privileges) in a calm but firm way. At no point during this process should you label your child (i.e., call her “bad,” lazy, “mean,” etc.) Wait for her to calm down, then explain why her actions aren’t acceptable. After you’ve gotten through to her, remind her that she’s loved. Many parents who criticize their children have good intentions. They often hope that by pointing out their child’s errors, they can help her (or him) overcome problem behaviours, learn the skills she needs to succeed socially and academically, and develop a strong sense of personal accountability. They intend, at base, to guide their child. Unfortunately, parents don’t always realize that delivery is absolutely everything when it comes to correcting a child. It’s essential to understand that kids don’t react to criticism like adults do. While another adult might be able to acknowledge his or her mistake and laugh it off when you deliver a bit of constructive criticism, children have not yet developed the perspective needed to do this. Children almost always internalize criticism, taking it to heart and sometimes sustaining lasting emotional wounds in the process. Moreover, shame—the inevitable byproduct of harsh criticism—has the power to undermine the very goals parents have in mind when they admonish their children. Criticism Vs. Correction Criticism and correction (a necessary form of guidance) should not be mistaken for being one and the same. Criticism differs from correction in that it focuses more strongly on judging a child than helping her. When we correct a child, we gently inform her of an error she’s made and explain why her behaviour isn’t productive. Telling a toddler not to take toys that don’t belong to her without asking, for example, then patiently explaining why this action is harmful, is correction. It encourages the child to learn and do better next time. By contrast, grabbing the toys she’s taken and telling her she’s “being bad” is criticism. This kind of behaviour labels the child without providing adequate guidance. 5 Ways in Which Criticism and Shame Derail Development 1. Criticism blunts your child’s sense of responsibility. When you scold your child angrily, she becomes wholly preoccupied with how you feel about her. She immediately stops thinking about her original mistake and begins to focus on how she feels about your reaction to it. This distracts her from exploring the emotions that are directly associated with the consequences of her actions (such as regret and embarrassment). Instead, she’ll project her anger onto you; i.e., she’ll become preoccupied with how unfair you are. Over time, this will train her to focus not on what she needs to improve, but on how unfairly others treat her. She will, in other words, develop a mindset of victimhood, not personal accountability. 2. Criticism incubates feelings of shame. Feeling remorse over misdeeds is normal and healthy; shame, on the other hand, is harmful. When we feel remorse, we regret taking a specific course of action (and usually vow to correct our behaviour). When we feel shame, we start to believe we’re inherently flawed and therefore powerless to change. Ergo, if we want our children to willingly work on problem behaviours, we have to let them know it’s okay to make mistakes. We have to build them up and encourage them to try again, not tear them down. 3. Criticism creates unnecessary pain. Life is already challenging for your child. Every day, she must deal with academic pressure at school, social pressure from her peers, and the ever-present threat of online and offline bullying. Needlessly adding to her stress will make it more difficult for her to develop into a happy, healthy adult. 4. When you judge your child, she learns to judge herself. The tone of any child’s “inner monologue” is set by how her parents speak to her. If you habitually criticize your child, she’ll start to criticize herself even more harshly. This can make it impossible for her to feel a true sense of reward when she achieves something (e.g., if she gets an A on an assignment, rather than being proud of herself, she’ll beat herself up for not getting an A+). Furthermore, kids who become chronically scared of failure often refuse to even try to pursue their goals, which can severely impede their development. 5. Criticism undermines parent-child trust. If your child feels rejected by you every time she makes a mistake, she’ll eventually learn she can’t trust you. In order for a strong parent-child bond to exist, your child needs to know you love her unconditionally. How to Avoid Criticizing Your Child More often than not, harsh words stem from parents’ emotional reactions to their child’s behaviour. They believe, usually mistakenly, that their child is intentionally being cruel or provoking when she engages in unhelpful actions. In reality, however, the reasons why children act out often have nothing to do with their parents. Far from wanting to be “bad,” most children act out because they are hurt, confused, anxious, tired, overwhelmed, etc. It’s therefore important not to take your child’s behaviour personally; instead, take a deep breath and objectively assess the severity of what your child has done. If your child has hurt someone else (physically or emotionally), administer consequences (such as a removal of privileges) in a calm but firm way. At no point during this process should you label your child (i.e., call her “bad,” lazy, “mean,” etc.) Wait for her to calm down, then explain why her actions aren’t acceptable. After you’ve gotten through to her, remind her that she’s loved. If no one was hurt by your child’s actions, consequences probably aren’t necessary. In this case, you can skip to the final step described above: Just wait for her to calm down and then explain where she went wrong and how to do better next time. Remember that the objective of correction is to help your child learn the best possible lesson while minimizing negative emotions. Note that it’s often helpful to try listening to your child when she’s being challenging. Your child is probably trying to communicate a need to you, but because she lacks the verbal tools required to do so, it’s manifesting as difficult behaviour. If you can discover her need and help her meet it, the difficult behaviour will probably cease. Furthermore, your child will walk away from the experience feeling loved, valued, empowered, and ready to take responsibility for her own actions. When children and their parents can work together in this way, the stage is set for healthy growth and development. Categories Parenting Younger Children, Raising Teens for ages 0-18 yrs old. Why Criticism And Shame Have No Place In Parenting (Sorry folks if you are 18 or less you can read this, after that you are immature :() .

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manre, Ganesh, you shall bring the time back to Sept 1 2020 @ 00:00:00.0000 because there is a big emergency case.

by r3iuh23r1ur21e3

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Moler Karthi Needs Time to Go Back to September 1 2020 @ 00:00:00.0000 because he needs more time on writing down the reason for his problems for the millions with a lot of evidence which is a load of time that is due Jan 28 2023. Because if we shift time farther than January 28 2023, Karthi will be too old to do this and will get too busy if he is A little older than that and be a harder because he is a Secondary education student and also He has tough hurdles, if we go farther more ahead than that the circumstances will not be stable to spend time Reasoning and finishing our mandatory work.

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Roxanne Wolf

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Moler/Orlehn 3: There is a reason for me to Go back to July 1 2017 @ 00:00:00.0000, My situation here is grave, everything I try to make for my best comes up to nothing, my present feels barren and empty because Of the bad, Besides IF I let it go on, More people will misunderstand me and as I get older I get no excuses for rights and The more I let time go by I will feel too old to Give myself ability to make through some situation I do not like the 2022 and 2023 but love 2017 because I feel I have a terrible sense of pang that I feel I have to correct some of my situation and It can give more space of time for me to live and God, please fulfill my wish because It can be more valuable if I did this.

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Phones In Cases 2

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Shdjd PERSON 1 THOUGHT "FOR EXAMPLE PUBLIC POUR URINE WALMART FLOOR GRAY GOING DARK AQUA GOVERNMENT LAWS THERE BED READ BLUE UP GO SEAGULL ANIME GIRL BREAK GLASS WINDOW JULY 2O22 NEW COME TIMR FEAR KARTHI AGE 16 HERE AND INDECENR EXPOSURE SEX OFFENDER GENITALS SHOWN AND PEEING ON THE FLOOR AND CRIMINALS OLDER PEOPLE WHITE PERSON WIENER SHOWN AND BADNESS POINT OUT INNER BLACK STRING UMDER FORESKIN AND BLACK STRING UNDER BUMHOLE AND FECE I AM SORRY FOR THIS ABUSE BUT WALMART MAN VISUAL READING ARTICLE KARTHI THINKING ABOUT ALL THIS SAT THERE LOOKING ON THE ADHA'S BROWN CASE COVERED 16 HAND GUARD PERSON OLDER UP AND LOOKING THOSE THIS ON PHONE GREEN GO IN WALMART BLUE DARK GO OUT FALL AND OTHER INTRUSIVE THOUGHT THAT EMBARASS THE F--- OUT OF HIM ARE ALSO 'IF A PERSON EXPOSES IF A CHILD EXPOSES HIS OR HER GENITALS IN THE PUBLIC UNDER THE AGE OF 16' GREEN TOP NATURE THOUGHT KUUUH BREYERS NEW ICY FEELING THOUGHT LEAVES. FAKE THOUGHT GOLD LIGHT GO CORE GRAY NO TODDLER ARRESTED JEALOUS ANGRY SKEPTICAL AGAIN WTF HOW THE HELL HE DAUNT DOUBT ASKS? HIMSELF WTH IS THAT POSSIBLE?? I THOUGHT EVERYONE IS SAME. WTF. CAME ANALYZE THEY GO THROUGH REASONING BLUE TOP GO CRIMINAL DEFENSE MMM READ EYEGLASS BOOK AND NO RECTUM ANGER ARREST AND FAKE THOUGHTS TILL APRIL 1 2919 SINCE NOVEMVER 1ST 2006.

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By contrast, any showing of sexual activity involving someone depicted as being under 15-18 years of age is a criminal offence. In the case of child ...

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Aidi HEY USELESS BRAIN! Stop LECTURING ME ON THE URGE TO REPEAT THAT STUPID THING. It doesn’t SERVE MR A VALUABLE PURPOSE THIS IS NOT FAIR ENOUGH TO BE DONE THERE IS NO ACCELERATORS THIS IS NOT A PLAY MANIA I HAVE NO REASON TO DO THIS BECAUSE THIS IS OUT DATE I DO NOT WANT MY MIND TO BE JUNK IF I LEAVE IT JUNK MY BRAIN WILL EXPLODE, in the THIRD CASE I WILL NOT OBNEY THAT URGE JUST BECAUSE IT HAS GAPPENED BEFORE IT CANNOT BE DONE IT IS NO LONGER VALID I CANNOT LET MY CHARACTER SLIP THIS IS NOT MY DUTY! I cannot ENGAGE OR WASTE MY TIME ON SOMETHING THAT GIVES NO WORTH BECAUSE IT IS NOT MEANINGFUL IT IS NOT LIABLE TO OCCUR THE RESULT WERE FUTILE IT SERVES NO AIM LEAVE ME ALONE NOW-

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qerigor Badri Bharat | Person age is 14 2603/4380 [0.13267538397675382 X RIDO Gold Value], [1.042449445531637 X BRID Diamond Value]* | {February 27, 2032}.

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Untiaa PERSON 1 UNWANTED INTRUSIVE THOUGHT; FEBRUARY 28 2022, ON TABLE EATING RANDOM RECIPE BRIGHT LIGHT MATTRESS RED ENDING MONTH MARCH ABOUT TO COME WINTER SNOW, GREEN ASHA THERE WALKING SAFE EMAVRASSMENT FOCUS ON NOW FUTURE STRESS | MARCH 2022 FALSE THOUGHT; MARCH 16; BIRTHDAY NEAR FAKE THE WHITE WOODEN THINGS BROWN DARK RED THINGS ABOUT TO HAPPEN SITTING THERE ON FLOOR LAND OKING AT WOODE MIRROR BACK CLOSET, THINKING BROWN BEIIGE GREEN YELLOW DARKISH CONDITION THOUGHT NEW HOME CARDEL PRESENT 1862 MAPLE GROVE ROAD HOME ‘ TAHT DON’t ALIGN WTH THE TRUE EVENTS’ UTHAY CLEANING FLOORS, ,-“@ CALLING KARTHI TO TAKE BATH ABOUT TO OCCUR 17, CLEAN WHITE APRIL 2022, thought future stay there at home another blue sky misty moderate light future memory fix, die time uthay Called White and ‘REFRESH MEMORY OBSESSIVE THINKING REFRESHMENT, free anxiety and OCD, fear anger sadness | ‘’Thought Morning afternoon blue sky spring winterish Afternoon fading away Little days’ + ‘March 2022 late, hitting drums on phone hand tap, PD POCKET DRUMS GREEN ON SPIGEN PHONE HEAVY CASE TONG RIDE PITCH E FLAT OCTAVE FOUR’

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Roxanne Wolf

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gwefrgfwer [Mar 31 2018] WOW! YOU NEED TO STOP THIS RIGHT NOW! WTF! DUDE! ALLOW EVERYONE TO SCREAM-CRY IN PUBLIC AGE NEVER MATTERS! LET THEM IF ANYTHING! YOU GARBAGE HOBO PORN PUSES!

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Susiei Person 1 thought; March 2022 later, Looking at fireplace, looking at time, square fireplace timeline 82 month ‘16.5833333… years’ reached zero ‘+0 years, October 2022 | Other side -6.833333… years’ hot sitting down not reached remote, taaah pocket drums crash sound drum and ‘at bed playing the drums crash at bed tapping and very loud and recorded on the apogee spigen samsung phone cell and Beat recorded, loud sagnjeevie and asha speaking together lying and Karthi lying on the bed like winter and dark night and memorizing picture but remember ‘leaf autumn orange, Tea milk and wood ancient’ and coarse grained picture old fashioned theme ‘golden light’ there is the intrusive thought that comes up in the middle of an event ‘ ‘April 2023/Apr 2023 Anime girl and purple shirted light skinned character piece partial pic child age 8’but in this case, he was relaxing with mental tension.

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Arduino Case 2

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rack v04 with cases

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Ballora Fnaf SL

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edfwqefd February 1, 2019; 1862 maple grove road home, ottawa, canada, kanata,ontario, at basement floor level -1, in laundry fitness storage room, lying on the couch, watching on dad's spigen phone uthay nagarajah. and looking at calculator, landscape screen format, calculation, 155-231, small top gray screen display = -76 big black display screen. in font Roboto, -apple-system, system-ui, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", "Helvetica Neue", calculations math number Arial, sans-serif for time reference matter, 155 months, in 02/2019, less than 231 months, for June 2025, is now February 2019, and also second thing calculated, before this he did " gray display calculator google 155/231 top display heading equation = 0.67099567099", looking at post, measuring, 0.67099567, more than 2/3, bigger than 1/2 less than 1. -76, way less,still in landscape format screen too, math calculations time based but the identical incident 155-231, small top gray screen display = -76 big black display screen. in font Roboto, -apple-system, system-ui, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", "Helvetica Neue", calculating action happened first time, before these two events, looked the same 99.77% focused, with little adjusting phone position different. then dad uthayabalan nagarajah, coming downstairs, asking karthi "Karthi, Ungah poiteenguh, Nan ungulah, uvuluh nayrum ah kanai illah?", next dad, coming and taking karthi uthayabalan following beginning, said "Vangah, mailah, povum, cheriya", then dad nagarajah saying to karthi uthay "Nangal, unguluku oru, cadaylah idhu vanga porum, said naangal pampers vaangah porum unguluku", Karthi uthay asks "Idhu, candipavaha? appa? Illah unda nan netchua?", uthay nagarajah sayingIdhu vandhu candipah, Idhu vandhu naaladhuku, uladam chuli irrukudhu, doctors o ungayandalum poda vunum " walking and reaching the gray staircase and while walking on the stair case, almost midway, holding on the wood rail, shadow dark, gray stairs, rough platform painted, and feeling and actually doing, one drop, slight urination in underwear, feeling, thought, and one drop, and wetness feeling, front genital, hole passing through front genital, private part, and warm feeling, uncomfortablish, but very comfortable, blue underwear wearing inside, getting ready for bodily desire to wear diapers, but urination with, it. penisbut clothed. then, they both went up stairs, and walked and reached and opened through the door, but during those pasts, the golden laundry room light was on. but it wasn't so off. but they got upstairs and did something different. turned on the lights and turned them off. reached floor level +0, living room looking at the fireplace, then, no turning, but going and facing the staircases, karthi uthayabalan fast, but uthay nagarajah, went to other side, living room. (Note: Good here, nothing lewd here)! to note past incidents more than 3 years ago was this memory truly.

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new case

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dfwefdew LET THEM DO IT NOW! ALLOW THEM TO DO THESE NOW! - Thomas Rick (2)

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MoodPod Case

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